Provided by: Maria GraciaAn appointment is simply a mutual agreement to meet with someone at a specific time. You set appointments with doctors, dentists, lawyers, accountants, contractors and hair stylists, just to name a few. Usually, appointments that are set actually take place. Even when you do have to cancel an appointment, you usually re-schedule it and place the date and time on your calendar. There’s one person, though, that you might frequently forget to set up an appointment with. That person is YOU. The reason that many of us can’t seem to find time to enjoy ourselves, read something of interest, exercise or watch a favorite television program is that we don’t schedule a definite date and time to do so. You are too important to put the things you love to do on the backburner. Why not schedule an appointment with yourself and write it on your calendar. When the time comes, keep the appointment, just as you would any other. You’ll find that you’ll be able to start doing the things you love to do because you’ll have a specific time slot on your calendar prepared to give you that time
Day: January 28, 2009
Keep The Skin Under Your Eyes Looking Young
Oleda Baker
The Skin Under And Around Our Eyes Is Very Delicate, Which Makes It More Sensitive To Aging Prematurely. Lines, Wrinkles, Puffiness, Dark Circle… So What’s A Lady (or Man) To Do? Here’s How To Treat and Protect This Age Sensitive Skin. We wake up one morning and all of a sudden we see a tiny line or two around our eyes. Our reaction is, “It just popped up overnight.” Wrong! When you see your first line you should know it started developing long ago. This is often true of dark circles under the eyes and puffiness, too…it starts gradually and all of a sudden we notice them. Could proper “around the eye skin treatment” have prevented these things from happening? It can certainly postpone the problems for many years and soften the seriousness of it when it does happen. Of course, as we grow older and older, there will be some lines and puffiness, but they can be greatly softened and not so serious. You can still have beautiful skin at any age, if certain guidelines are followed.
So, What Can You Do NOW For This Age Sensitive Skin? Plenty!
Wear Sunglasses: It’s very, very important to wear good sunglasses when out in the sun or glare. I wear them even when it’s cloudy. Keep an extra pair around. Sunglasses, in addition to saving your eyes, also protect the delicate skin around your eyes from the sun’s rays, which can hasten aging by drying the skin’s surface and hardening the collagen under the skin. Sunglasses also do another very important thing…they help lessen squinting. The combination of frequent squinting and direct sunlight on the skin is a fool proof “recipe” for quickly aging this thin skin. When possible, using a good sun block – minimum SPF 15 – will also help. I can’t emphasize enough how important it is to protect the skin around your eyes from the sun, not only because the sun hardens and wrinkles the skin, but also it stimulates the production of the pigment, melanin, darkening the skin and exacerbating those dark circles.
Special Gentle Massage: It’s important that the tiny capillaries under the eyes be stimulated. This massage is to help reduce lines and wrinkles, dark circles and puffiness: Take a finger and press firmly, but gently, on one spot on the area under the eye. While pressing down firmly, and without lifting the finger, make a small rotating motion several times. You can also just press firmly, lift your finger up, and do it again several times in one spot. Then go to the spot next to it until you have massaged all areas under the eye.
Sleep The Right Way: Puffiness can be caused by an accumulation of fluid in the eye area, possibly from allergies or a sinus problem. Try sleeping with your head a little higher so this fluid cannot accumulate as easily. Try this for 2 weeks and see what the results are. I don’t believe in sleeping on high pillows in general, as they are not the best for your body alignment. If you decide you need to stay with the higher pillow make sure your neck is properly supported.
Get Enough Sleep and Rest: Yes, you have heard this before. But it really is true. While you are testing these suggestions try to get 7 or 8 hours rest. Then make up your own mind if this is good for you.
Allergies: People with puffy eyes caused by allergies are constantly rubbing and stretching the collagen, fibers and skin around the eyes. Keep this up and you’ll develop loose, maybe baggy, skin around the eyes. See your doctor for the proper eye drops and treatment if necessary.
Use a “Dark Circle Remover”Make-up: To hide dark circles use a product that covers well yet is light in texture. Use one with Mica to reflect light, which causes a “light reflection” in your dark area. Reduce
Stress: Some say that dark circles are encouraged by stress, that it can cause an increase in melanin production under the eyes. If you can’t get rid of the stress at the moment, make sure you are taking enough vitamins/minerals/trace minerals with plenty of all the vitamin B family. This can help you deal with the stress better.
Could You Be Anemic? If you are tired a good part of the time check with your doctor to see if you might be anemic. This can cause some discoloration as well as looking tired under the eyes.
Creams For Under Eyes: Lines and wrinkles under the eyes are not always a sign of aging, but could be an indication of wear and tear of the skin, as well as lack of treatment. Since the skin is so thin and delicate under the eyes it needs to be constantly “conditioned and treated” with creams. Because my skin is so dry I use wrinkle smoothing night cream on my entire face making sure I apply it under my eyes at night. I use nutritive day cream or sometimes vitamin C cream in the morning, even when I apply make-up for the day. You should know it’s ok to mix and match the creams… it’s whatever works for you.
Cigarette Smoking: Smoking cigarettes slows the blood flow in the face and under the eyes. This means the skin is not getting the proper nourishment and blood flow it needs to be at it’s best. Also every time you draw on a cigarette you purse your lips …do this over and over for a long period and what do you have…the lines going up and down on the skin around your lips that you hate so much. AND…you did it! I don’t mean to make you feel bad but I must tell you the truth…if you’re a cigarette smoker, maybe it will help you stop.
Feed Your Skin For Beauty and Health: Nutrition plays a very big part in the total condition of your skin and its youthfulness. (And while I’m thinking of it…not a pleasant subject…make sure your bowel movements are normal and regular. Poor skin can be due to poor nutrition, as well as constipation.)
Asthma At A Glance
Your Best Possible Life
by Kathy Gates,
Professional Life Coach
How do you define happiness? Is it a beach cabin
in Hawaii? Is it having freedom to do what you
want to do? Is it having a good relationship with a
special someone?
Happiness is indeed an individual definition. For
our purposes, let's agree that it would mean a life
that's working and comfortable in several different
areas: Time, Environment, Work, Thoughts, and
Relationships.
Every day, you are given a day to use any way you
choose. You choose how you make your living,
who you spend time with, what you think about,
read, or listen to. You choose where you shop,
what internet sites you visit, and what you learn.
You choose what TV shows you watch, how your
furniture is placed, what color your walls are. You
choose how much how much you smile, what you
wear, and what you eat. Are your choices
contributing to your best possible life?
1. TIME: How do you spend your time? Is it
wasted time, or refreshing time? Does it take your
toward your goals, or away from them? Are you
consciously spending time, or just letting it happen?
Does the way you spend your time reflect what you
say is important to you? What you do today is
important because you're exchanging a day of your
life for it. Write down how you spend your days,
your week. Include sleep time, grooming time,
wasted time, relaxing time, work time, etc. Be as
specific as you can. You'll quickly see if you're
spending your time where you WANT to spend it or
not, or if time is passing you by.
2. ENVIRONMENT: What is no longer working
for you in your space? Are there broken appliances
or outdated equipment? Are there unfinished
projects that were important at one time, but no
longer intrigue you? When you look around, does
your environment make you feel good? Make you
smile? Research shows that your environment has a
big impact on the way you feel. Color and lighting
can improve your mood. Changing the direction
your desk faces can give you a different
perspective. Make some small but dramatic
changes. Add color to your walls with some
paintings. Try a fresh coat of paint. Use things that
make you smile.
3. WORK: Do you feel fulfilled and happy about
your work, whether that's a domestic engineer or a
CEO? Or do you dread doing the work, and just
count the minutes until time off? We've all been
overly influenced by shoulds, oughtas and have-to's.
So much so that what you want truly want in life,
what would truly make you happy, may be
suppressed WAY down deep. Remember things
that you enjoyed as a child or young adult, and ask
yourself why you don't do them anymore. Ask
yourself if you had 1 minute with all the world's
attention, what message would like to give them.
These clues help you know what your purpose is in
life, and what would make you feel most proud,
happy, and fulfilled.
4. THOUGHTS/SELF TALK: Do you talk to
yourself like your best friend, acknowledging the
wrongs, but supporting change? Or do you talk to
yourself like the neighbor your despise? Do your
thoughts inspire and motivate you, or hold you back
from your best self? As scary as this thought
(pardon the pun) may be, you are living right now
what you thin. Everything begins with your
thoughts. You have direct control over how you act
and what you think (feelings and physiology are
indirectly affected). Feeling better begins with
controlling your thoughts.
5. RELATIONSHIPS: Do the people in your life
support you and your goals? Are you proud to
introduce them to others? Do you learn from them?
As you've probably noticed, you don't live in a
vacuum - whatever you do affects other people, and
what they do affects you. While you absolutely
cannot change other people, you CAN set up your
life so that the people closest to you provide support
and encouragement. Build reciprocal, healthy
relationships, such as working with other people
who want the same changes that you do, or who you
can support in their own activities. Seek them out.
They're looking for you too.